Elegant Mother of the Bride Dresses

Bonnie Gown – Pewter
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Mila Gown – Emerald
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Crane Cape Dress by Amsale
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Ballina Dress by Reformation
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Silk Wrap Midi Dress by Zimmermann
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Mac Duggal Emery Dress
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Jenny Gown – Emerald
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Mac Duggal Maya Dress
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Pryce Off-the-Shoulder Column Dress
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Allover Beaded Cap Sleeve Sheath Dress
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Tadashi Shoji Odette Dress
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Jenny Yoo Ellis Velvet Open Back Dress
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Plus Size Mother of the Bride Dresses

Plus Size Chiffon Capelet Sheath Dress
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Plus Size Embroidered Illusion Gown
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BHLDN Leila Satin Charmeuse Dress
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Jenny Yoo Ryland Velvet Maxi Dress
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Sequin Lace Capelet Jersey Sheath Dress
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Plus Size Mesh Illusion Sleeves
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Gold Mother of The Bride Dresses

Long Floral Beaded Gown with Flutter Sleeves
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Drape Back Detail 3/4 Cape Sleeve Draped
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Beaded Sweetheart Neck Short Flutter Sleeve Mermaid Gown
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Kensie Stretch Sequin Keyhole Neckline
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Ruched Sequin Trumpet Gown
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Sequin Floral Sheath Gown
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Tea-Length Mother of the Bride Dresses

Plus Size Beaded Cocktail Dress In Biscotti
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Sleeveless Mikado Fit & Flare Midi Dress In Ivory
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Kay Unger Illusion Boat Neck Bodice 3/4 Sleeve
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Mac Duggal Short Floral Sleeve Bow Waist
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Wildflower Embroidered A-Line Dress
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Tea length lace and chiffon mock two-piece
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Petite Mother of the Bride Dresses

Alex Evenings Petite Size Jewel Neck Sleeveless
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Alex Evenings Petite Size Sweetheart Neck
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Alex Evenings Petite Size 3/4 Sleeve Sequined
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Pisarro Nights Petite Size Boat Neck 3/4 Sleeve
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Summer Mother of The Bride Dresses

Postcard Puff Sleeve Dress by Zimmermann
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Sweet Posy V Neck Ruffle Gown by Needle & Thread
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Selena Gown – Coral Venetia Petals
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Starfruit Maxi Dress by Farm Rio
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Long Floral Beaded Gown With Flutter Sleeves
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Short Sleeve Floral Embroidered Gown
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Short Sleeve Beaded Blouson Gown In Blush
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Floral Flutter Sleeve Knee Length A-Line
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High-Neck Floral A-Line Gown with Keyholes
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Brooke Gown – Blush Watercolor Floral
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Jessica Gown – Amaranths Spray
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Sexy Mother of the Bride Dresses

Twist Front Satin Gown With Cutout In True Blue
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Ines Gown – Steel Blue
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Off Shoulder Dress With Floral Embellishment
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Winslow Dress by Reformation
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Staring at a winter wedding invitation and wondering what to wear? Choosing the right dress for a chilly celebration can seem tricky. No worries, though — we're here to help you select a winter wedding guest dress that's both stylish and comfortable.

Comfort is key for these cooler celebrations. You want a dress that lets you shine without the shiver. We're thinking warm fabrics and smart layers in colors that complement the season's palette.

Let's look at the dress options. Whether you want full-on sparkle or subdued elegance, we've curated a selection that meets all tastes and keeps the cold at bay.

So, settle in and take a look at our picks. With this guide, you’ll be perfectly prepped to enjoy the wedding warmth and style. Here’s to finding your ideal winter wedding guest dress!

Do's & Don'ts for a Winter Wedding Guest Dress

Do's

1. Do Layer Up: Winter calls for extra warmth. Think elegant shawls, chic jackets, or trendy cardigans that complement your dress.
2. Do Choose Rich Fabrics: Velvet, heavy silk, and thicker lace are not just gorgeous, but they also offer extra warmth.
3. Do Opt for Darker Colors: Winter is the perfect time for deep reds, emerald greens, and classic navies. They look fabulous and season-appropriate.
4. Do Consider Length: Longer dresses or gowns can be both elegant and practical for keeping you a bit warmer.
5. Do Accessorize Wisely: A statement necklace or a pair of dazzling earrings can elevate your look without adding bulk.
6. Do Go for Closed-Toe Shoes: They're more practical and comfy in colder weather.

Don'ts

1. Don't Wear White: This is a classic rule. White is typically reserved for the bride, so best to steer clear.
2. Don't Underdress: It’s chilly out there! A summer dress, no matter how cute, might not cut it in the winter chill.
3. Don't Forget About Comfort: Sure, style is key, but being comfortable is just as important. No one wants to shiver through the ceremony!
4. Don't Overdo the Bling: A winter wedding is elegant, but too much sparkle can be overwhelming. Balance is key.
5. Don't Ignore the Dress Code: Always respect the wedding’s theme and dress code—it's a sign of respect for the couple's big day.
6. Don't Neglect Your Coat: Make sure your outerwear is as chic as your outfit. It's the first thing people see!

Long Sleeve Winter Wedding Guest Dresses

The beauty of a winter wedlock is enhanced by these elegant pieces. Long sleeves not only give that much-needed warmth but also add a royal touch to your style.

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Castalia Dress

Knitted Winter Wedding Guest Dresses

Who says you can't be snug and stylish? Knit dresses are the ultimate go-to for a winter wedding. They're like a warm hug, but make it fashion! Plus, they're perfect for sipping hot cocoa and dancing the night away.

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Tommie Knit Dress

Off-The-Shoulder Slim Sweater Midi Dress

Velvet Winter Wedding Guest Dresses

Velvet dresses are like the royalty of winter fabrics. They're soft, they shimmer, and they scream luxury without trying too hard. Perfect for feeling a bit fancy while staying warm.

Jamen Knit Dress

AW Nida Dress
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The Somerset Maxi Dress: Velvet Edition

Metallic Winter Wedding Guest Dresses

Want to sparkle like a winter wonderland? Go for a metallic dress! They catch the light beautifully and add an instant ‘wow' factor. It's like being your own disco ball, but in the best way.

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NISSA metallic-sheen pleated dress

Lace Winter Wedding Guest Dresses

Lace dresses are timeless. They add a touch of elegance and are perfect for any setting, from a rustic barn to a swanky city venue. It's all about that delicate charm!

Courtney Sequin Lace Cocktail Dress

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Awaken My Love Burgundy

Floral Winter Wedding Guest Dresses

Who says florals are just for spring? Winter floral dresses bring a pop of color to the chillier months. They're a cheerful reminder that spring isn't too far away.

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Hutch Floral Tiered High-Low Slip Dress

Oscar de la Renta

Jumpsuit Winter Wedding Guest Dresses

Not a dress fan? No problem! Jumpsuits are the chic alternative. They're comfortable, stylish, and you don't have to worry about a gust of wind ruining your style game.

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Alli Pant & Reid Top

Winter Wedding Guest Maxi Dresses

Maxi dresses are the drama queens of the dress world—in the best way. They flow, they move, and they make a statement without saying a word. Plus, more fabric means more warmth

Hutch Long-Sleeve Velvet Wrap Maxi Dress

LSPACE Mara Cutout Maxi Dress

Dolce & Gabbana Floral-print Silk Dress

Alright, that’s the scoop on your chic winter wedding wear – a curated collection of wedding guest attire that's sure to have you looking the part without stealing the spotlight. From cozy knits to dazzling sequins, we’ve covered styles that will not only match the winter wedding theme but also keep you comfortable from the “I dos” to the last dance.

Remember, the best outfit is one that feels like you, just a bit spruced up. So whether you fall for the velvet charm or the sparkle of sequins, the key is to wear it with confidence. Don’t forget to layer up with a stylish coat or wrap – after all, no one’s at their best when they're shivering!

Now, with these options in your fashion arsenal, you're all set to RSVP ‘Yes' to that winter wedding invite. Go on, pick the dress that makes you feel fabulous, toss in a bit of your unique style with accessories, and get ready to celebrate love, even if it's frosty out there! Cheers to looking sensational and toasting to the happy couple!

With the resurgence of unique looks for the bride, like bridal pantsuits, cut-out elements and flowing sleeves, wedding guest style should be playful and just as fabulous! As a wedding guest, embrace the elements of what you already love wearing.

Our favorite trends of the season include wrap dresses, neutral prints, jumpsuits, two-piece ensembles, and even more glam versions of bridesmaid gowns. This list is your go-to for Setpember, October and November wedding guest shopping. These ensembles are wedding-appropriate yet modern and fun to wear as a wedding guest, or even as a bridesmaid this fall!

See Also: The Best Places to Buy Wedding Guest Dresses Online

Wrap Dresses

Wrap dresses have that “dressed up but not overdone” feeling. They’re a dress with duality. Make it fancy or keep it a little more casual when the occasion calls for it. Grab a slick clutch and you’re wedding guest ready. Swap out your fancy heels for a pair of boots and you’re ready for an evening out.

1. Silk Wrap Dress

Silk Wrap Dress by Zimmermann via ShopBop

2. Olive & Gold Wrap Dress

Darian Dress by Cult Gaia

3. Flowy Wrap Dress

Winslow Dress by Reformation

4. Casual Cool Linen Wrap

Farah Dress by Nanushka via ShopBop

Jumpsuits

This is one of our favorite trends! And, it’s for everyone. Jumpsuits look put together without the need to accessorize. (But please, adorn yourself in jewelry as you see fit!) Make a statement with zero fuss. Pair with a bold shoe and you look composed without overthinking the details.

5. Feminine Floral Jumpsuit

Alfred Jumpsuit by Reformation

6. Square Neck Jumpsuit

Alva Jumpsuit by Reformation

Neutral Florals

For Fall, I’m the first to admit I’m a huge fan of subdued, neutral tones. But, if you want to rock something a little more playful, then a floral pattern at a wedding is the perfect combination. Weddings are the happiest occasions, so sporting a happy floral print only makes the celebrating easier. Plus, the photos will look even more cheerful!

7. Patchwork Cut-out Dress

Pattie Patchwork Long Dress by Zimmermann

8. Organic Floral Print Dress

Sky Peace Silk and Bamboo-blend Wrap Dress by Savannah Morrow via Net-a-Porter

9. Asymetrical Ruffle Dress

Paola Ankle Dress by Cleobella via ShopBop

10. Ikat Puff Sleeve Dress

Ilana Ikat Puff Sleeve Smocked Dress by Sea via ShopBop

11. Watercolor Florals Dress

Lucia Dress by Significant Other via Free People

Two-Piece Ensembles

YES! The pantsuit trend is not only cool and sophisticated but sexy, too. (And definitely, the type of wedding outfit you can wear again in different combinations). This look is ever-evolving, so make it you!

12. Blush Satin Pantsuit

Doubleface Satin Two-piece Suit by Lapointe via ShopBop

13. Quilted Mini Skirt Set

Alexis Top and Chrissy Skirt by Cara Cara via ShopBop

14. Fall Tropical Set

De Mar a Mar Crop Top and Undercurrent Wrap Skirt by Johanna Ortiz via ShopBop

15. Sexy Sleeveless Suit

Colbie Two Piece by Reformation

16. Silk Floral Crop Set

Carrie Silk Two Piece by Reformation

Bridesmaid-Inspired Dresses

Inspired by the bridesmaid styles of long flowing dresses with simple details, these gowns can do double duty as a bridesmaid or a wedding guest look. They’re a little more sophisticated than traditional bridesmaid dresses but still play by the rules.

17. Dark Rust Charmeuse Dress

Leila Dress by BHLDN

18. Velvet Slip Dress

Velvet Sabrina Dress by Jenny Yoo via BHLDN

19. Silky Maxi Dress

The Rosabel Dress by Fame & Partners via Free People

20. Open-back Lace Dress

Rain Column Dress by Fame & Partners via BHLDN

To shop even more wedding day looks for bridesmaids & guests check our Best Places to Shop for Bridesmaids Dresses Online guide.

Thankfully personal shoppers and stylists are not just for celebs and the richest of the rich anymore. They are accessible to people of all budgets and can help with everything from wardrobe overhauls to finding that perfect outfit for a special occasion. And is there any occasion more special than your wedding? I think not.

Westfield London (my favourite UK mall) has recently opened a luxurious new styling suite called The Fashion Lounge where shoppers can connect with a stylist on a one to one basis, as a couple or in groups – which makes it the perfect destination for bridal party styling. 

Got 8 bridesmaids? Enough groomsmen for a football team? No problem, bring them all along!

The Fashion Lounge is the ultimate, stress-free shopping experience for the bride, groom, mothers (or fathers) of the bride/groom, bridesmaids, groomsmen and wedding guests ahead of the big day. Expert stylists are on hand to help find the perfect little white dress, best bridesmaids dresses or chicest wedding guest outfit from over 700 retailers.

When you're considering outfits for one of the biggest days of your life, it makes sense to have an expert eye, unbiased opinion and someone who knows all the shops in Westfield inside out, on hand to narrow down your choices and help you find the perfect fit.

Westfield London kindly offered me the chance to test drive The Fashion Lounge with one of the UK's top stylists, Elin Mai of Style Doctors. So, in need of some chic outfits for Barcelona Bridal Week, I jumped at the chance!

My Personal Styling Experience At The Fashion Lounge

I filled out a Q&A before meeting Elin and we also had a chat over the phone about my personal style, my budget, what I was looking for, the types of clothes and colours that I like to wear as well as the shapes, colours and styles I avoid (body-con dresses anyone?). So before my shopping trip had even begun, I was feeling relaxed and excited about what outfits Elin would select for me.

On arriving at The Fashion Lounge I was greeted with a welcoming smile from Elin and the offer of a drink, then we sat down on one of the plush couches for a brief recap about what I hoped to get out of the session. Elin then showed me some of the outfits she'd selected for me, which were presented on a rail with jewelry choices draped over each outfit along with a selection of shoes and bags that could work with all of the outfits.

There was a spacious changing area sectioned off with a curtain, and a huge mirror where I tried on each outfit on in privacy and comfort, then would step out from behind the curtain to show Elin.  We also went to a few shops in Westfield where Elin had already put aside some items and outfits for me to try on.

(Elin and I in The Fashion Lounge)

I felt immediately at ease and comfortable with Elin, who was just as warm and friendly in person as she was over the phone. In some ways it was like I was shopping with a friend, but the best part was that I got expert, honest advice on styles and cuts to flatter my figure and achieved what would have taken days (or perhaps even weeks) of shopping in just a couple of hours.

I left our two hour session with some truly lovely pieces and, amazingly, I managed to stick to my budget. Which is pretty much unheard of for me!

I was so impressed with Elin's passion and enthusiasm for styling – she seemed to genuinely care about finding me the perfect outfits. And went above and beyond to ensure I got everything I wanted from our session. As I was trying on shoes, I'd mentioned to Elin that I was actually looking for some new wedge trainers. Later that day, hours after our session, she texted me a photo of the perfect pair she'd spotted in Aldo. I went and bought them immediately and absolutely love them!

Thankfully, with styling sessions in The Fashion Lounge, there's no minimum spend which means there's absolutely no pressure to buy anything. All the items you consider buying, are placed on hold till the end of the day in the various shops, where you can then choose to buy them or not.

With prices ranging from £130-£240, for a two hour session (depending on the stylist you work with) I realise, it can seem hard to part with money that could be spent on more clothes and accessories. But, as someone who finds shopping for special occasions rather stressful, I personally think it's well worth the investment.

I learnt so much from Elin so I thought I'd pick her brain on all things wedding style for you lovely lot too! Read on for her super helpful tips.

Wedding Styling Q&A With Elin Of Style Doctors

What's your approach to personal styling?

My approach is knowing that every single person you meet is different and that that you have to tailor each personal styling session to suit your client. I like all my clients to have fun and feel like they’re shopping with a friend but that they’re also learning as they go along. The personal styling experience we offer at StyleDoctors and Westfield’s, The Fashion Lounge is just that, ‘an experience' rather than just a simple shopping trip.

What are your do's and don'ts for wedding guest outfits?

Don't leave it until the last minute. This is something we always see and people end up spending way more than they had hoped and buy things that are the wrong colour and shape as they haven't spent time getting it right.

Photo by Jose Villa

It's not simply all about ‘the wedding dress' anymore as brides feel under pressure to buy lots of formal outfits for bridal showers, hen dos, rehearsal dinners and even reception dresses. Do you have any tips for mixing and matching items to keep costs down?

Always think of at least three ways of being able to wear something when you buy it.

If a groom, or father of the bride/groom/best man is looking for an off the peg suit or tuxedo, how can you help to bring his look together?

Off the peg is fine, it's all about the fit. As long as you have a well-fitting suit, you can style it up. It's about the accessories such as a pocket square, socks, the right shoes and shirt. Fit is everything though, we see too many grooms wearing ill-fitting suits. It's well worth investing in a stylist for even an hour to make sure you get the perfect suit.

Photo by CJ Williams Photography via Bridal Musings

I love the thought of treating the mother of the bride and/or groom to a personal styling session at Westfield's Fashion Lounge so that she can feel pampered too! I remember my mum was constantly worrying and talking about her outfit before my wedding – it's a big deal for parents too. I bet she would've loved some expert help from you!Do you have any tips for finding the perfect mother of the bride/groom outfit?

It's important to know your colour palette first and think about how you will look next to the bridesmaids. Never wear yellow in your everyday wardrobe? Don’t wear it for your son or daughter's wedding! Think about your outfit as a very special extension of what you'd wear to a really nice party. Too many people try to go so far removed from what suits them because of the enormity of the day that they simply get it wrong. Try on everything together; dress, shoes and all the accessories. This makes such a difference to see the whole outfit together – which is obviously what we facilitate in The Fashion Lounge (you'd be surprised how many people don’t do this).

During our session, you talked a lot about the importance of accessories and how they can really pull an outfit together. What are your top tips for choosing occasion wear accessories? What items do you recommend splurging and saving on?

You can save or spend depending on your budget. Think about the style of dresses you're buying and then think about whether you need a big statement piece or a smaller, more dainty necklace. For budget necklaces Westfield retailers, Forever 21 and H&M are great. Coast is also great for more dramatic jewelled pieces.

Photo via Donna Morgan

Mismatched bridesmaids dresses have been growing in popularity these past few years but shopping for more than one dress (2, 4 or sometimes even upwards of 10 dresses!) can be quite a daunting task. How would you go about helping a bride and her maids of all different shapes, sizes and skin tones find the perfect combination of dresses/looks?

It's all about the colour palette. Once you have a theme, it's easy (well, for a stylist) to put together a selection of dresses that all work within a range of colours. Some can be plain, some can be printed. There just needs to be one thing that ties them all together such as a certain tone. Having different dresses will allow your bridesmaids to all have shapes that suit their figures and ultimately make them feel good and that will come across in pictures (we've seen plenty of unhappy bridesmaids that weren't happy in their dresses). Don’t leave accessories until the last minute either. Make sure your bridesmaids are all perfectly accessorised. Having a mixture of prints and plain dresses will also ensure that your pictures have much more depth and won't look flat.

Westfield London is full of amazing occasion wear shops, from designer stores like Ghost to wedding guest favourites Coast and budget friendly options like H&M and New Look. Sometimes it's hard to know where to begin. How can working with a personal stylist help make finding your dream outfit that much easier?

Working with a stylist like StyleDoctors at The Fashion Lounge takes the stress away completely and your bridal party will look perfectly put together and expertly styled. It's well worth the investment whatever your budget to ensure that everyone looks and feels their very best. The most stylish weddings are always those where the whole party looks great together and that the attention to detail is impeccable and those are the things the stylist will make sure are just right. Sure, everyone wants great food and great wine and even good music but pictures of the outfits will be there forever and that's why it's worth investing in getting it right.

Photo by Brian LaBrada Photography via Bridal Musings

And finally, what should you wear/bring with you for a personal stylist consultation?

Always come in a good bra. Everything else can be done in The Fashion Lounge. Please make sure your hair is neat and make-up done too. Why? Because you're going to be looking at yourself all day and you want to feel your best.

I'd also like to add, wear clothes and shoes that are easy to get on and off – think dresses/leggings and slip on shoes as you'll be getting changed a lot!

Thanks so much to Elin for sharing her tips, I hope you've found them helpful.

Visit The Fashion Lounge page on the Westfield website for more info about working with Elin, or one of the other Westfield stylists.

Want to work with Elin but not based near Westfield London? Check out Style Doctors for more info (Elin and her team also offer personal styling online) and, even if you can't quite stretch your wedding budget to include a personal shopping session, Elin's fabulous blog features a wealth of helpful advice on fashion and personal styling.

Disclaimer – I was gifted an appointment at the Fashion Lounge but, as always, all opinions are my own and Claire and I will only ever share products and services on Bridal Musings that we love and that we think our readers will find helpful and/or inspiring too. 

Finding the perfect outfit for any type of wedding dress code doesn’t need to be confusing any longer. We’re decoding what every wedding guest dress code means from dressiest to most casual. Black tie, cocktail attire, or dressy casual won’t have you thinking twice.

Photo by Elise Morgan via Bridal Musings

What is a wedding dress code? A wedding dress code is often listed on invites as a way to explain the overall style of their wedding. The couple has factored in elements like their wedding venue, location, season, and their own personal taste. Even if their invite says “suggested dress code,” think of it as a requirement.

If there’s one last bit of wisdom we can bestow upon you, wedding guests, it’s that it’s always better to be overdressed. Never be confused by a wedding dress code again.

Photo by Nola Fontanez

How To Pick The Best Wedding Guest Outfit

Scope out the wedding venue online. Is the space modern, trendy, vintage, or quirky? These are all cues that will help you understand the couple’s vision for their wedding day, as well as what fashion might be appropriate. Here’s an example: the couple is getting married at the newest sleek event space in town, with rooftop cocktails and no children in attendance. These are all hints that this is a dressy or formal affair.

Also, consider the time of day and location. Afternoon weddings and events with earlier curfews will naturally be more casual, while evening weddings are more formal. The same goes for a backyard wedding versus an indoor wedding in a banquet hall. Will the reception be moving to another swanky location? If so, it may be a fancier event afterparty and you’ll want to be dressed appropriately.

Dresses & photo via Mumu Weddings

Think of the season. Will you be outdoors? This will mean you might want to consider a shoe with a more substantial heel versus a stiletto. It is grassy, rocky, sandy, snowy? Embrace the elements in a more glamorous way than you would on vacation. This might also determine what accessories you’ll need. Stylish sunglasses, luxurious outerwear, or fashionable hats are totally appropriate style choices.

Feeling confident matters, not only for brides or grooms but also for wedding guests. So, while there’s no guarantee how late the reception will last, following the dress code guarantees you’ll be the best dressed, from cocktail hour to afterparty.

Photo by Michelle Wever via Bridal Musings

Dress Code: White Tie

White Tie attire leads the list in terms of formal and extravagant. The most formal banquets, events, and some weddings might make this dress code a requirement. Think of classic tuxedo jackets with tailcoats and matching pants. Pair a tuxedo and dress shirt with formal accessories: a vest or cummerbund, cufflinks, and a tie or bowtie. Floor-length gowns are required, but you can take it as far as voluminous ball gowns, gowns with small trains or capes, and regal accessories like jewels and gloves. For your easiest style inspiration, google photos of the Obamas at most of their White House events. Embrace the feeling of grandeur and opt for elegant fabrics, leaving no detail undone.

Pro Tip: To make your white tie or black tie wedding looks more stylish, find a designer tie with a modern print, or don a pair of glamorous elbow-length gloves.

Photo by Pure White Photography

Dress Code: Black Tie

If you get invited to an extremely formal wedding, it’s most likely going to be a black-tie affair. Floor-length gowns are a must, with a hem that falls at least to your shoes. Patterns, colors, sparkle, beading, and drama are all excellent choices in a gown. But, don’t be afraid to spring for a luxurious wedding pantsuit if that’s more your speed. And for men, a full suit is required, not separates, but a tuxedo with a tailcoat isn’t required. Feel free to play with the color and fabric depending on the season of the wedding. Is it a summertime wedding? Then a white dinner jacket is perfectly acceptable. Generally, steer clear of over-the-top suit patterns for a black-tie event, but you can opt for smaller pinstripes, muted plaids, or event tiny polka dots.

Pro Tip: If you don’t own a matching suit, make this event the reason you invest in something you love. In today’s fashion world, we deem colored suits perfectly acceptable for a black-tie wedding. Tones like burgundy, forest green, and navy have become the new neutrals. Take the time to get it expertly tailored so it’s a look that makes you feel your best.

Photo by Laura Zorman via Bridal Musings

Dress Code: Black Tie Optional & Formal Attire

Consider this “black tie light,” so when in doubt, default to black tie. It’s okay to choose one piece of the full ensemble and make it a little less serious. Instead of a tuxedo, a suit is still perfectly acceptable. Instead of a floor-length gown, a shorter gown is absolutely okay, as long as it’s still fancy in design or details. The mood we’re aiming for is elegant. If black tie optional or formal feels like a grey area, you can’t go wrong with an all-black ensemble. Most likely everything Margot Robbie has worn to a red carpet event would fall under formal wedding attire, so let her be your black-tie fashion inspo.

Photo by Elise Morgan via Bridal Musings

Dress Code: Cocktail

Odds are you’ll definitely be invited to a wedding with cocktail attire. It’s one of the more popular choices for weddings because it lands between a little less formal and a little more dressy. And because the term “cocktail dress” is used widely in fashion to describe a fancier dress you’d wear out, let’s keep this explanation simple. Cocktail attire is a simplified version of formal with a slightly more playful spirit. In no way does this dress code mean “casual” of any kind. It’s swanky, so show up in an ensemble that looks like you match the formal energy of the wedding party. Shorter dress hemlines, patterned suit jackets, jumpsuits and pantsuits, and bold prints are celebratory while maintaining a dressed-up look. This is also the perfect time to sport an LBD, just keep your accessories elevated.

Dresses & photo via Mumu Weddings

Dress Code: Semi-Formal & Dressy Casual

Either of these dress codes gives you the flexibility to wear dressy items that lean a little more casual. It also means you can choose an element of your outfit that you want to dress down. Examples of this would be a fashionable suit paired with stylish sneakers or a silky dress paired with more casual heeled sandals. Linen, cotton, and knits that still look dressed up are all fair game for a dress in this category. If you’re confused about finding a look, think “fancy dress”, versus a fancy gown. Great places for this style of dress would be Reformation, Shopbop, or Moda Operandi to get your inspiration going.

Photo by Keeper Creative

Dress Code: Casual

A casual wedding is still a wedding, and in our opinion, a reason to dress your best. There’s no obligation to wear a suit, however, we’d highly recommend a pants, shirt and jacket combo, with the flexibility of not needing a matching set. If a jacket isn’t your thing or doesn’t accommodate the weather or destination, be sure to choose a dress shirt, slacks, and a tie that work together. Lover of bolo ties? Go for it! Sundresses, patterned dresses, or more casual materials like knits can all be worn as best suited for the season you’re in. Steer clear of denim, athleisure, ball caps, and streetwear.

Photo by Claire Eliza

Dress Code: Destination

Will you be attending a big city bash or a rural farmland wedding? Location is everything and will determine what type of garb is most appropriate. Going to Africa and the invitation says “Safari chic?” We’ve already got you covered. Otherwise, check the weather ahead of time to see what will be appropriate for the climate and region you will be visiting. Take note of our editor Claire’s Baja beach wedding that was ultra sunny, sandy, and a lively dressy event.

Pro Tip: take cues from other guests you might know who will be in attendance. Chatting with other travelers will help you gauge the overall vibe everyone else is going for. Sussing out the vibe means there’s no chance you’ll be underdressed.

Photo & Dresses via Shona Joy

Dress Code: Beachy

Within this category, you might find subcategories, like Beachy Formal, or Beach Cocktail. In general, fashion rules on the beach are a little more relaxed, just like that sweet salt air. Men's and women's shoes can be more casual in terms of style. Look for lighter colored loafers as well as woven styles that breathe, and for heels, lower heights that you could possibly wear in the sand. This might be your sign to spring for a pair of espadrilles. Accessories like sunglasses, scarves, shawls, and playful jewelry should still feel fashionable. And while women’s fashion provides endless options for sundresses, men can find breathable cotton or linen looks in lighter colors, and yes, even go sockless in their loafers.

Photo by Chris & Ruth Photography

Themed Wedding Attire

A wedding with themed attire says two things: the couple loves fun, and they are going to love it the more you play up their theme. We can’t lay out all the possible outcomes for this one, but we can give you the best piece of advice – make sure to fall in between the semi-formal to formal categories. Unless the theme is casual by nature, more is more. Examples could be: a decade theme (the 50s, 70’s, 80’s,) a holiday theme, a whimsical movie or character wedding theme, or even a color palette or a mood. If their theme is “all-white cocktail attire” then here’s your only exception to wearing a white dress!

Pro Tip: If the couple is having a theme, they probably explained this more in-depth on their wedding website! Check their site first before contacting the couple or family with your dress code questions.

Photo by Alex Tome

No Dress Code

As they say, don’t sweat the small stuff. Our best advice would be to take a peek at their venue and wedding location and to rack your brain on how formal or informal the couple might be. There’s never any harm in being overdressed for the occasion – but making the mistake of being underdressed might make you feel a bit out of place. If you hover around semi-formal or cocktail attire, we guarantee you’ll be adequately equipped, as well as show your respect for the couple and their day, as well as any photos you might be in!

Ready, set, get shopping! Here are our favorite places to buy wedding guest fashion & bridesmaid outfits.

As someone who loves clothes and accessories but isn't quite as big a fan of shopping (the crowds, the fitting rooms, the sifting through racks to find your size), I just love shopping online, and getting to try things on at home at my leisure.

And ASOS is always my first stop when it comes to finding something to wear for an event/night out/standard Monday.

So, as you can imagine, I was pretty excited when I heard about the launch of the ASOS Wedding Shop.

Ever since I started at Bridal Musings, I've been waxing on to brides to check out ASOS, and the highstreet in general, for alternative wedding dresses, cool guest attire, and not-too-bridal bridal accessories.

Lots of brides and bridesmaids had been already wearing ASOS' white, cream, or pastel dresses, so it was only natural that they developed a dedicated wedding collection, with all the affordability and current style of their standard stock.

I went along to see the Occasionwear Collection in person, (it was a fabulous party with wine in the water coolers!) and the dresses and accessories were just as gorgeous as it looks in the pics.

Of course, they don't have quite the same detailing and fabric quality of a £3000 designer dress, (these beauties start from £120), but they would be perfect for a destination or city wedding, laid back bash or for any bride, either on a budget, or not wanting to spend big bucks on a one-wear dress.

As I said in my post on finding my own wedding dress, you'll (ideally) be the only one at your wedding in a big white dress, so no one's going to know the difference!

The dresses also go from UK sizes 4 to 18, with Curve collection designs available too up to a size 28 – and as you know, we're big fans of collections that are accessible to almost every bride.

And the new ASOS Wedding Shop isn't just about the white dresses.

It's got everything you could need for your big day look, from cute shoes and pretty cover-ups, to clutches, lingerie, jewellery and hair accessories.

A dedicated suit section for grooms and guys has some really sharp separates for men who want to create a custom look, or go for a suit that's modern and stylish for their wedding.

For bridesmaids, ASOS has lots of gorgeous dresses in its spring/summer collection for your girls to be inspired by, along with some fab mix-and-match bridesmaids dresses.

And not to be forgotten are the guests, for chic mothers of the bride and groom, ASOS have really fab styles that can be adapted for any age or style.

Okay, so enough of me gushing about my fave shop on the internet – seriously I have a good 200 items in my saved list at any given time and our local post office knows me by name for all the deliveries – let me show you my favourite picks from the ASOS Wedding Shop.

I bet you'll find something you love, whether it's for you, your groomsmen, your bridesmaids, or your mum.

Apologies in advance though, if your debit card takes a hit!

The Lookbook

The Wedding Dresses

The Accessories

The Groom & His Guys

The Bridesmaids

The Mothers of the Bride & Groom

What do you think of my picks? I just love it when clothes this gorgeous don't have to cost you mega bucks.

Those skinny pant suits for grooms are so cool, and aren't the wedding dresses just beautiful – you'd have no idea they were so affordable, right?

Don't forget to pin your favourites to show your mother/bridesmaids/groomsmen and visit the ASOS Wedding Shop for more chic ideas for your big day style.

See more Gorgeous Budget Wedding Dresses. 

Invited to your ultra-stylish friend’s wedding? Or, attending as a plus one? Depending on the wedding venue, the wedding theme, or the party destination, it’s essential to find an outfit as a guest that checks all the fashion boxes.

Our shoppable list will walk you through our top online retailers for wedding guest dresses and fashion. This includes our recommendations for the dress codes they suit best! Cocktail attire, beachy wedding guest outfits, and black-tie-appropriate dresses are all included. We have you covered from casual to formal weddings.

Need a refresher on wedding dress codes? Consult our helpful dress code guide.

These retail sites also offer looks for wedding guests hoping to find a jumpsuit or two-piece outfit that breaks traditional style boundaries. Places like Net-a-Porter have you covered on the coolest designer fashion, and The Outnet includes designers at an incredible discount. We want you to love your outfit, and yes, wear it again!

For a quicker take, follow these links to our favorite sites for wedding guest fashion. Or, keep reading for the full reviews, price breakdowns, and dress code suggestions. In a perfect world, we’re envisioning a dress that fits your budget, your own personal style requirements, and the wedding dress code.

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See also: 30 Gorgeous Wedding Guest Outfits

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Where to shop for Wedding Guest Dresses

Here’s a guide to being the best-dressed guest, with the top websites to buy wedding guest fashion.

1. Reformation
2. Moda Operandi
3. David's Bridal
4. Sachin & Babi
5. Etsy
6. Net-a-Porter
7. MATCHESFASHION
8. Anthropologie
9. ASOS
10. Shopbop
11. LoveShackFancy
12. Free People
13. Cult Gaia
14. Revolve
15. The Outnet
16. Alice & Olivia
17. & Other Stories
18. Eloquii
19. ASTR the Label
20. The Own Studio
21. Shona Joy
22. Bec & Bridge
23. Fame & Partners
24. Shop Gossamer
25. Needle & Thread London

Reformation

Price Range: $200 – $500

Dress code: semi-formal, cocktail, dressy casual

Whether the invite says “backyard wedding” or “city rooftop reception” Reformation has you covered. Each dress style is available in a few colors, which makes it easier to customize to your own style. Silks, timeless floral prints, and chiffons come together in classic and simple styles. Adding a dress from Reformation means you’ll have a new staple piece that fits into your wardrobe seamlessly.

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Moda Operandi

Price Range: $100 – $5,000

Dress code: destination, formal, semi-formal, cocktail

For the designer fashion lover, Moda Operandi offers runway looks in abundance. The designer fashion is so hot, they even offer you the opportunity to preorder looks. Yes, you can wear a Marchesa evening dress as a wedding guest. Top designers include Elie Saab, Oscar de la Renta, and Versace, to name a few.

And if we can convince you of anything, do not sleep on their shoe selection. Anything from embellished Prada platforms to the forever coveted Jimmy Choo stilettos.

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David's Bridal

Price Range: $17 – $598

Dress Code: dressy casual, destination, beachy, relaxed

David's Bridal offers a wide selection of stylish and affordable wedding guest dresses. With sizes ranging from 0 to 26W, they cater to women of all shapes and sizes. Their in-store stylists provide personalized assistance, ensuring that each customer finds the perfect dress for their body type and style. Their online store offers convenient shopping and easy returns. David's Bridal also offers a variety of accessories, such as shoes, jewelry, and handbags, to complete the look. With their focus on quality, affordability, and customer satisfaction, David's Bridal is an excellent choice for wedding guest attire.

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Sachin & Babi

Price Range: $300 – $1,000

Dress code: formal, black tie, cocktail

This brand designs elegant, sophisticated formal wear for the refined. Attending a formal or black tie event? Shop their entire black tie or cocktail party selections without questioning if the dress fits the dress code. It’s giving us Meghan Markle wedding guest in the best possible way.

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Etsy

Price Range: $50+

Dress code: formal, casual, themed

Shop vintage, shop new, and shop custom looks to wear an outfit that’s completely one-of-a-kind. Because of the nature of Etsy shopping, you have direct access to makers and sellers. That means whatever you want to find, or have custom-made, is easily searchable.

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Net-a-Porter

Price Range: $300 – $5,000

Dress code: black tie, formal, semi-formal

This site offers the best collection of designer pieces, updated multiple times a week. Search dresses by style, and even check their selection of wedding-appropriate jumpsuits and playsuits! Noteworthy brands with wedding guest fashion include Zimmermann for ruffles and wraps, Galvan for sexy, minimal silks, and Retrofête for shimmer, sparkle, and sexy cocktail looks.

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MATCHESFASHION

Price Range: $150 – $10,000

Dress code: white tie, black tie, formal

Fashion babes, this is your dream shop for high-end looks. The bold, the creative, the avante-garde. Curate a designer look from dress to handbag. Anything from Saint Laurent to Gucci is on the table for excellent wedding guest fashion.

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Anthropologie

Price Range: $100 – $800

Dress code: black tie, cocktail, semi-formal

Anthropologie spans a range of dresses to meet whatever style of wedding you are attending. Shop cocktail dresses, formal looks, and casual dresses. Their site has also been updated with more inclusive images and styles, which means you can even browse petite or plus sizes to find the look that’s just right for you.

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ASOS

Price Range: $40 – $400

Dress code: destination, cocktail, dressy casual

Asos has only grown to impress us with inclusive fashion. Curvy, tall, and petites can all shop comfortably though a large selection of of-the-moment looks. While most of the site leans toward trendy statement pieces, they’re also a great source for minimal and classic looks at a smaller price tag.

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Shopbop

Price Range: $200 – $2,000

Dress code: destination, cocktail, beachy

Be the best dressed and most colorful guest. Definitely in the business of standing out and embracing unique style, Shopbop is a playful collection of youthful dresses. Think, playful and imaginative looks like Rodarte, and bright and architectural looks like Ganni.

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LoveShackFancy

Price Range: $300 – $1,000

Dress code: casual, beachy, cottagecore

Perfect for an outdoor wedding, these pieces are a casual cottagecore dream come to life. This includes ruffles, florals, pastels, and ultra-colorful fabrics. We’re picturing brunch weddings, garden party weddings, and niche destinations. You’ll even find dressier options, like ruffled silk maxi dresses. Check out their ‘Best Dressed Guest’ section for a filtered look at their perfect wedding selections.

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Free People

Price Range: $60 – $1,000

Dress code: cocktail, destination, casual

Free People’s signature style of bohemian-infused, never trying too hard dresses is one of editor Christina’s personal favorites. “Without fail, when I wear Free People I always get asked, where did you buy that!” Search the ultra-casual beach collection, or score an edgy and unique full-length dress that you’ll most definitely want to wear again.

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Cult Gaia

Price Range: $100 – $2,500

Dress code: destination, cocktail, beachy

Seen recently on some of our favorite celebrities, Cult Gaia has garnered a following for those with a fiery taste for style. Bold colors and cutouts run through their collection of dresses in unique designs you haven’t seen elsewhere. Shop sexy-but-casual beach-appropriate knits, as well as vibrant gowns suited for a unique destination wedding. Proceed with caution, you will release your inner wedding guest goddess.

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Revolve

Price Range: $200 – $1,200

Dress code: cocktail, destination, afterparty

Revolve is for the wedding guest hoping to turn a few heads. Curated for the sophisticated and fashionable, this site serves “fashion model wedding guest” energy. Sexy necklines, open backs, and high slits are paired with sparkles, neons, and feathers. If the event requires any type of outfit change, this is our go-to recommendation.

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The Outnet

Price Range: $200 – $10,000

Dress code: black tie, formal, semi-formal, cocktail

This is the site for some of the best designer discounts. Yes, that means Monique Lhuillier, Badgley Mischka, and Valentino, all at prices up to 50% off. They include helpful categories like cocktail & party for shorter, and slightly more informal looks. Or, scroll through their gowns section for super dressy and formal pieces.

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Alice & Olivia

Price Range: $100 – $3,000

Dress code: cocktail, dressy casual, themed

Lovers of color and pattern, Alice & Olivia makes an MTV-esque red carpet statement. We can see these dresses working for a colorful wedding, a themed wedding, or an event that feels a little more rock & roll. These dresses are ideal for when you know the afterparty is the main event.

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& Other Stories

Price Range: $50 – $300

Dress code: dressy casual, casual, beachy

This brand feels like sipping a spritzer on a relaxed afternoon. None of their pieces are ever overdone, but they allow room to accessorize. Casual linens, fitted satins, and soft wrap dresses keep their selection updated, but flexible for a babe with their own personal style. A wedding guest wearing & Other Stories doesn’t need a plus one.

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Eloquii

Price Range: $100 – $200

Dress code: cocktail, dressy casual

Shop here for plus-size party dresses that are actually size-inclusive. Eloquii is a place for modern pieces with style details that feel intentional. They also have an excellent rental program, perfect for the wedding guest with plenty of events to attend.

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ASTR the Label

Price Range: $80 – $200

Dress code: cocktail, dressy casual, destination

A place to shop your summertime best, this site is filled with vibrant florals and colorful slips. ASTR The Label embraces current trends through a playful lens. From mini dresses to maxi dresses, these fashionable pieces all fall under $200 making them a must-shop for the guest who doesn’t want to think twice about the price.

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The Own Studio

Price Range: $150 – $400

Dress code: semi-formal, cocktail, destination

Our Editor-in-Chief, Claire, has dubbed The Own Studio a recent favorite brand from the UK. Enchanted by their sexy, silk wedding gowns, we praise the fashion gods that they also design evening gowns. Shop timeless, fashionable silks in every color you’ve ever wanted. Accessorize whichever way matches your personal style, or let the simplicity speak for itself.

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Shona Joy

Price Range: $200 – $500

Dress code: semi-formal, destination, beachy

This Australian-based brand has made a point to thoughtfully design pieces that will be treasured in your closet forever. Shona Joy’s signature style of bohemian 70’s glamor was designed to look good whether you’re in heels or in bare feet. You’ll find silk pieces with cutouts, strappy open backs, and maxi dresses. And true to their inspiration, these pieces can work for a destination beach wedding or even a sleek indoor affair – heels optional.

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Bec & Bridge

Price Range: $300 – $500

Dress code: semi-formal, beachy formal, destination

Bec & Bridge has remained on our hot list for their sexy slip dresses. Their ethos of design trickles down into every facet of the brand, including sustainable practices, fabric recycling, and biodegradable packaging. So, while this may be maxi slip dress paradise, they offer exceptional style, backed by the attitude of today’s consumer. Their wedding guest edit is colorful and on trend, while feeling like staple pieces for your life.

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Fame & Partners

Price Range: $200 – $500

Dress code: semi-formal, formal, themed attire

Looking for a made-to-order dress? We love Fame & Partners for their zero-waste practices and for their affordable, custom designs. This site is ideal for anyone shopping for a specific design, color, or detail. When placing your order you can customize details like dress length and the fabrication from satins to velvets.

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Shop Gossamer

Price Range: $200 – $1,000

Dress code: formal, semi-formal, themed

Shop Gossamer is still our pick for some of the highest quality and fairly priced vintage. Find any style you love, from any era. Sequins from the ’50s, chiffon pleating from the '60s, and florals from the '70s are in abundance. Ideal for themed weddings, unique destinations, or for the babe who longs for a statement piece to add to their wardrobe.

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Needle & Thread London

Price Range: $300 – $1,300

Dress code: formal, semi-formal, cocktail

Home of the ruffle, Needle & Thread will cover you in embroidery, shimmer, and layers. Each piece is embellished to perfection. Pair these dresses with weddings in an outdoor garden, in a historical city setting, or at a swanky evening club. They have a vintage spirit and the perfect amount of playful, wedding guest energy.

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